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in·de·ci·sion
/ˌindəˈsiZH(ə)n/
noun
the inability to make a decision quickly.
"government indecision over the future of local taxation"
synonyms: indecisiveness, irresolution, irresoluteness, lack of resolution, hesitancy, hesitation, tentativeness; ambivalence, doubt, doubtfulness, unsureness, uncertainty; vacillation, equivocation, oscillation, wavering, teetering, fluctuation, faltering, second thoughts; delay, hanging back, waiting, shilly-shallying, dithering, stalling, temporizing, temporization; havering, humming and hawing; swithering; informaldilly-dallying, blowing hot and cold, sitting on the fence; raredubiety, incertitude, cunctation
"she was rooted to the spot, torn by indecision"

The idea of being rooted to the spot... That place of indecision is an unsettled place of uncertainty and vulnerability.   

Have you experienced the paralyzing affects of indecision...even the minute decisions like what to wear, what to eat or where to go on a day out can clamp the brakes on joy and give room to worry and fret.  Imagine then the multiplied affect when decision has been removed from your life either by choices or by circumstances and there is no longer a clear path. We can begin to experience indecsion as exploitation; others choosing for us, dictating the use of our time, our bodies and our opinions.  Yet choice is always ours, the freedom to choose is never removed or lost but so often we give it away.  Choice is the freedom we take for granted and least understand as one of our most valuable and precious gifts.

I believe we so often overlook this as a need when finding a starting point for walking with someone who has come to us for help.  The reality is that most of us and those we are called to help have no real basis for this kind of thinking and have not learned how to make decisions.   We can learn and pass on how to walk through a thought and planning process to really look at the "where have I come from and where am I going."  This can unlock so many doors in a person's life.  When I myself come to a point of decision on a matter whether weighty or inconsequential there is such joy and freedom.  When I see a young woman come to a place of decision about her next step it opens doors to relationship and the good news of life in Jesus.  Do not overlook the very basic skill of making a decision as it comes with freedom, comes with hope and it comes with a new sense of person and purpose.

 Job 22:28 (CJB)

28 what you decide to do will succeed,
and light will shine on your path;